Stop the glorification of busy – let’s redefine success! August 23 2016
Guy Kawasaki’s article Let’s Stop the Glorification of Busy for the Huffington Post reviewed the book ‘Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-being, Wisdom, and Wonder’ by Arianna Huffington.
Wealthy Arianna is celebrated as one of the world’s most influential women, photographed for the covers of prestigious magazines and is the cofounder and editor-in-chief of the Huffington Post Media Group. Arianna began to wonder if money and power really were the measure of success after she was so exhausted that she fell, breaking a cheekbone and gashing her brow. As she underwent a brain MRI, CAT scan and echocardiogram, she wondered about how meaningful the measures of a successful life were, and whether the toll they take on our lives is worth it all.
To attain money and power, people work long hours, sleep less, impact our health and miss out on time with people we love. In the resulting book, Arianna proposed a third metric for success: thriving.
What does a thriving life look like to you? Read our blog on escaping the busy trap to identify the key ingredients for a live you will love living.
10 tips from Arianna for creating a life of well-being, wisdom & wonder
1. Redefine success
Success is not working the most hours or sacrificing the most personal time. Success is creating a life you enjoyed living and that made other people’s lives richer.
2. Avoid burnout
Work smarter, not harder to avoid stress, burnout, and depression. Workers around the globe are increasingly suffering from these conditions – but remote working, glide time and flexible hours are becoming more common and technology now allows more efficient ways of working.
3. Nurture your well-being
Make time for the things that make you happier, healthier and more relaxed. Wellbeing is a requirement for a thriving life, not an optional extra!
4. Sleep more
Sleep is essential for good health, and to ensure a strong mental, emotional and physical state. Getting enough sleep also helps ensure you avoid illness and disease.
5. Take a digital detox
Step away from the computer. Put down the smartphone. Have screen free time with your kids. Be present with people, and enrich your life.
6. Keep learning
New skills, new exercises, new games, new facts. Active brains work better last longer and have more fun along the way!
7. Listen to your inner voice
Instinct is a phenomenal force. Follow your hunches, listen to your gut feelings and be in touch with your thoughts. You usually know exactly what is right for you.
8. Release your inner child
Spend time with children, take a trip, fall in love, try new things. Play! Spontaneity leads to joy and joy is a precious ingredient in life.
9. Find solitude
Peace and quiet restores wellbeing and nourishes creativity. Give yourself time to just ‘be’ and see what rises to the surface.
10. Give back
Compassionate acts contribute to a better world, and they make us happier. Volunteer, donate, create. Share your time and talents and make connections with your community.
A thriving life reaches other people and deepens our connection with ourselves. Take action now to create a shinier, healthier, more connected life and start enjoying yourself more!
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